THE BLUE LAUNDRY BAG - A REFLECTION by JOANNE M. PALMISANO
a laundry bag from my Mom before one went off to college. My mom always was one for addressing needs and having a laundry bag was a priority. In my case, she talked constantly about needing a laundry bag prior to starting college. It was a “must have” item. Being me, I just listened to her. Mom bought a blue laundry bag for me.
I really liked my laundry bag which was made of blue cloth with a drawstring. It was durable, easy to use and store. My trusty laundry bag held up for thirty years. As I matured, the bag became more than a holder of dirty and clean clothes, it became an all-purpose bag. It carried Christmas and birthday presents. It carted housewares, party supplies and various miscellaneous items. I always remembered who gave me my laundry bag along with love and care attached to it
As each of the two grandchildren went off to college, the importance of a laundry bag arose, well for me. I did not have to worry about them buying one for themselves because it did not appear to be on their list of “needed” items. Memories flooded me about my bag. My approach was different than my Mom’s. I waited until packing time to give it to each one of them. Each was given a different color. One was gray and the other a marble white and green. Of course, they could have rejected it, but did not. Yes, they are using their laundry bag.
During this process, it hit me that this simple item meant more to me. Besides being a tradition, it became a symbol of love and care. This triggered the idea of passing on other things, such as, values and life skills. Like my parents had prepared me for the next phase of life, I hoped that my husband and I were doing the same for the grandchildren. Hopefully, when they see and use the laundry bag, they will be reminded of home along with the love and care attached to it.